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Aug 2021
39m 26s

How to Avoid Worrying About What Others ...

DR. LARRY LAUER AND COACH JOHNNY PARKES
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Are you a people-pleaser? Do you worry too much about what others will think and it keeps you performing or being happy? The CLC team dives into worrying about what others think as a major obstacle to tennis performance. We discuss what it is, where it often happens, and how it affects performance. Finally, we discuss how we can spend less time worrying about what others are thinking and more time enjoying our tennis and life. Worry less about what others think notes: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1VJR_NPLI7zrc_5DZNE0SGBlIgcpbN7ip/view?usp=sharing

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