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Jul 2021
1h 11m

How To Be More Confident, ASAP

ALLISON WETIG AND CEARA KIRKPATRICK
About this episode

Confidence is a muscle we all have to work on all of the time. It’s a lifelong battle as we age, face challenges, and enter new stages of life. We believe that confidence starts from within and we challenge you to think about your current level of self-esteem. Are you avoiding events because of how you look? Are you holding yourself back from your dream job because you don’t think you have the skillset to get it? Are you dragging your feet on booking the trip because you’re afraid of what someone may think?

We start the episode by catching up on Allison and Ceara’s recent travels. Allison took a 10-day solo road trip to the southwest and is starting the 75 Hard program. Ceara went to the Lake of the Ozarks for a girl’s weekend trip and is heading to Cabo to shoot a wedding. We often find ourselves in cool situations and are regularly presented with incredible opportunities - mostly due to the fact that we put ourselves out there and are open to receiving the abundance.

There are a few weeks left of summer so we encourage you to make the most of it! If you’ve been resisting your next-level self - then this is the episode for you. Here’s your key to unlocking your inner confidence so that your outside follows suit!

Books We Recommend to Help with Confidence:

You Are A Bad Ass by Jen Sincero - Amazon Link Here

Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert - Amazon Link Here

How To Win Friends And Influence People - Amazon Link Here

Quit Like A Woman by Holly Whitaker - Amazon Link Here

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz - Amazon Link Here

Creating Affluence by Deepak Chopra - Amazon Link Here

Eat Move Sleep by Tom Rath - Amazon Link Here

Social Links:

Already Friends Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/werealreadyfriends/

Ceara's Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/cearakirk/

Allison's Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/allisonwetig/

Ceara's TikTok:

https://www.tiktok.com/@cearakirk?

Allison's TikTok:

https://www.tiktok.com/@allisonwetig?



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