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Jul 2021
18m 55s

#71 How to Actually Feel Your Feelings A...

BREAK UP BESTIE
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You hear a lot when you're going through something like a break up that you need to just "feel your feelings." But what does that even mean? How do you make sure you're taking the time to feel your feelings? That's what I'm talking about in today's episode. I discuss creating regular practices that put you in touch with your feelings, how to nurture your fee ... Show More
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