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Jul 2021
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الحلقة 03: لما يجب أن تتوقف عن معاقبة أط...

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لطالما ساد اعتقاد أن العقوبات هي أفضل طريقة لردع سلوك الأطفال وتعديله. ومع ذلك ، فقد أظهرت الدراسات والعلم غير ذلك، حيث بينت أن العقوبات ليست غير فعالة فحسب ، بل إنها ضارة جدًا لنفسية وعاطفة الأطفال.

التوقيت

0:20 العقاب أو القصاص لتربية الأطفال

1:00 الفرق بين الانضباط والقصاص؟

2:48 الاتصال العلائقي بين الاولاد والآباء

5:22 الخوف الذي يرافق العقاب أو القصاص

6:50 أسلوب الحرمان في القصاص

8:40 تمرين آخر حلقة

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Why You Should Stop Punishing Your Child

Punishments were thought to be the best way to stop and modify children's behavior. Yet, experience and science have shown that punishments aren’t only ineffective, but they are very harmful to children’s emotional and psychological well-being.

Timestamps:

[0:20] Punishment as a tool to raise children.

[1:00] The difference between discipline and punishment?

[2:48]  Communication between children and parents

[5:22]  The Fear that accompanies punishment.

[6:50]  Depriving to punish.

[8:40]  Exercise for Parents

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Music Credit: The Chillest Sunshine by Ben Curtis

© Riham Monzer 2021 | Produced by EMPWR House. 

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