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Jun 2021
52m 37s

Ep 50 Growth in Failure: Ditching Perfec...

Monica Berg and Michael Berg
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In this episode of Spiritually Hungry, Monica and Michael conclude their series on self-sabotage, this week exploring how striving to be perfect actually disrupts our lives and leads us to judging ourselves and others. Listen as they discuss the real benefits of leading a ‘messy’ life, one in which we abandon the illusion of perfection and embrace our failures as opportunities for growth.



We aren’t meant to be perfect; we are meant to live in the mud and, from that mud, take out a spark of Light. – Michael Berg



Further readings:

Mental Immunity by Andy Norman

Bird By Bird by Ann Lamott

The Pursuit of Perfect by Tal Ben-Shahar

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