Are You Your Own Worst Critic?

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Why do we keep critics in our lives?

You probably have someone in your life that seems to be on the hunt for anything they can criticize. It might not be a friend, a coworker, or a family member. It might just be yourself.

Today, Fr. Mike explains how to turn your inner critic into your inner coach.

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