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The Overwhelmed Brain

by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
652 EPISODES
Nov 2025
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One way to stop the head games
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
How to express emotions for the emotionally unexpressive
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The foundation of all dysfunctional behavior
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Is toxic energy blocking the life you want?
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Are you living your life on a foundation of fears and insecurities?
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Can you get more time with someone without controlling what they do with their time?
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Is sarcasm supposed to be funny or mean or...
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
When you don't talk about the hard stuff, hard stuff tends to stick around
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
When your values collide with others
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Moving forward through loss
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
When those we love die
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The "It's not my fault" apology
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Making hard decisions when you're not sure what's true
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The ten components that make up a healthy, long-lasting relationship
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The bare minimum needed for any close relationship
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Should I reveal my past to a potential new partner
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Are these old emotional wounds or something real happening now?
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The on again off again relationship and other challenging topics
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Some people don't want you to be yourself
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
How to be direct about someone's hurtful behavior without being confrontational
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Always take what sounds like a threat seriously
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The past is the worst place to ruminate
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
When good enough is much less than you want to settle for
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
They do wrong, you get blamed
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
When what you did is always thrown back in your face
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Life and relationship questions you may want the answers to
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Are you the only one keeping the friendship going?
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The specific steps some people take to manipulate you
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The direct way to communicate with a passive-aggressive person
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Avoid taking on the pain and suffering of others
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The aggressive accuser blaming you for things you didn't do
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Self-hate does not come from you
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
This doesn't have to be as good as it gets
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Stop blaming yourself for your stupid decisions
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The traps some people set for us by playing the victim
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
8 myths about life and relationships
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Keeping yourself unintentionally limited and stuck
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
When nothing is that great and you think you can't do anything about it
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
When you're about to lose your sh*t
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The five words that will change your life
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
His ex is unsafe for our relationship
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Constantly accused for things you didn't do
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
How do I raise my kids without completely screwing them up?
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
What you don't bring up will come up
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
It's in some people's nature to bring you down and drain your energy
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Wanting more than friendship when they don't
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The growing resentment of people and circumstances you just can't accept
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
The most empowering question to build your self-confidence
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Everything is good except the idea of marriage
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
My abusive ex wants me to sit next to him at our child's wedding
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert