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Oct 19
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My abusive ex wants me to sit next to hi...

Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
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A mom doesn't want to sit next to her abusive ex during her child's wedding but doesn't want to come across as selfish. Is it selfish to make healthy choices that will keep you happy and safe? Important discussion today. 
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