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Apr 2017
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How to Stop Wasting Time With Online Dat...

LUCIA
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Are you getting burned out with online dating?  Do you spend days or weeks chatting with a potential love interest online, only to find out there's no chemistry when you finally talk or meet?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you must do sooner rather than later in order to find out if there's a true connection or if you should keep it moving.

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