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May 2019
18m 23s

Your Future Needs You, Not Your Past

CARA ALWILL
About this episode

I don't know about you, but I have spent a lot of time thinking about my past. Ruminating over situations where I could have done things differently, obsessing over why I didn't do things sooner, wishing I could have said something different.

And do you know where that's gotten me? Absolutely nowhere.

I love the mantra, "Control the controllable" because it reminds me that worrying about the past, or things no longer in our hands, is a waste of time.

Every single thing you do today is weaving you into the woman you want to be tomorrow. Every single thought you think is shaping your future self. Every single action you take is setting up the world around you to either support you, or sabotage you.

In this episode, we’ll talk about how to shift our energy from focusing on our past to creating our future.

Thank you to our sponsor, Tara at Resting Boss Face! Get 50% off her course, Passion to Profit, by visiting www.RestingBossFace.com/Champagne.

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