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May 2019
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83. The Thought Ladder and Thinking V. B...

KARA LOEWENTHEIL
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As we try to change our results, we often try thinking new thoughts. I'm exposing why just thinking a new thought isn't going to have the same effect as truly believing it, and why this is crucial to grasp when you're working on your thought ladder.

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