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Jan 2021
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75: 4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.

He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour.

Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her.

Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…”

She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him.

But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?)

The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them..

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