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Feb 2020
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139: How to Set Boundaries w/ Nancy Levi...

Aileen Xu
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How many times have you said "yes" to something you REALLY wanted to say "no" to? When was the last time you were able to say "no" without feeling guilty? Coach and author Nancy Levin is teaching us how to set guilt-free boundaries with ourselves and the people around us. → Show notes & quotes at lavendaire.com/lifestyle-139 Nancy shares why you shouldn't ... Show More
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