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Jun 2011
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Should we care about hymens?

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Many cultures believe that a hymen is proof of virginity, but is it true? The hymen's not a piece of skin that covers the entire vaginal opening, and some women are born without one. Join Molly and Cristen as they discuss hymen myths and facts. 
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