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Sep 2020
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53: The ONLY Flirting Formula You Need.....

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

Question: What’s the #1 secret to powerful, seductive flirting?

For some people, that’s a silly question. “Flirting is simple,” they’ll say. “It’s just something you do when you like someone.”

And yet, in my 10 years of learning about attraction, I’ve seen so many make the same mistakes. They try to talk to that cute guy at the party, the conversation fizzles out, and they’re left scratching their heads wondering, “Am I being too keen? Too aggressive? Am I just boring?” But I understand. Knowing what men/women want when it comes to flirting can feel massively confusing. In fact, I’ve never seen flirting skills broken down in a useful way – so today I’m going to reveal the ultimate flirting formula. (Trust me, you won’t want to miss this).

It's time to finally make this confusing topic clear...

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