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Oct 2020
1h 1m

Get Out (Of The Closet)

Chris Gethard
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A caller opens up to Chris about the struggle to get his black, religious family to accept his same sex, interracial relationship. He also discusses the similarities between 'Get Out' and his relationship with his partner's family.

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