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May 2020
1h 30m

949 Change Your Mind to Attract Love, Ab...

Lewis Howes
About this episode

“Tell yourself a better lie, you’ll live a better life.”


QUESTIONS

How do we heal from decades of thinking negatively? (1:16)

How do we change our interpretation of flee or freeze to flow? (5:18)

How do we best influence our kids? (35:31)

What’s the difference between feelings and thoughts? (50:18)

What’s the main cause of addictive behavior? (1:04:10)

How do we become more self confident? (1:09:11)


YOU WILL LEARN

How our ancestral brain works (4:30)

Why the pictures and words we use are so important (9:05)

Why the conversation you’re having with yourself is the most important (13:16)

How role, function and purpose work (19:01)

The five child’s needs (24:10)

How tagging works in children with unmet needs (30:33)

How children keep the things parents say with them (39:12)

The importance of having an honesty policy with your kids (47:22)

How proper hypnotherapy excites the imagination (57:21)

The importance of installation in therapy (1:02:09)


LINKS MENTIONED

Rapid Transformational Therapy


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