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Nov 2016
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59: When the Past Affects Your Relations...

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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Dr. David Richo explains why the way we were raised and how our past experiences affect our relationships. Dr. Richo gives relationship advice on how to deal with our past both individually and with your partner. You will lean the tools to examine your past and the past of your partner to improve your relationship or marriage. Take note of the 5 A's - Attent ... Show More
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