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Dec 2019
32m 22s

Why Small Talk Should Be Banned & 9 Ques...

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What does small talk do to our minds and our experiences? Small talk limits us from deep meaningful relationships, not just with others but with ourselves as well.  How often do you go to an event and have the same conversation? You stop learning, you stop listening and leave feeling unsatisfied. The more genuine, authentic, vulnerable & empathetic discussi ... Show More
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