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Sep 2019
59m 32s

Dating Neurodiversity (w/ Sam Pancake)

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

"He said, 'I'd rather be dead than how old YOU are.'"

Things get real emotional in this episode. Sam Pancake (Arrested Development, A Million Little Things) discusses dating people on the spectrum, losing your partners to HIV, and agism in dating. Plus, Nicole's neighbor's kids are flying drones on her property, and she has a bone to pick with AMDA.

Check out Sam Pancake's podcast - Monday Afternoon Movie!

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