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Aug 2019
1h 6m

Problematic Issues of Porn (w/ Erika Lus...

Headgum & Nicole Byer
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"I would like to see films where women's pleasure is also in focus. Where it's important to the story that she is also having a good time." Erotic film director, screenwriter, and producer Erika Lust discusses the science behind what arouses us, the problematic issue behind "teen porn", porn's worst stereotypes, and her favorite porn bloopers. Plus, Nicole ... Show More
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