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Nov 12
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3 Parenting Mistakes That Push Teens Awa...

MARK GREGSTON
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Could your efforts to raise a responsible, well-adjusted teen actually be driving them away? In this episode, Mark and Wayne discuss three common parenting mistakes that can damage relationships with teens. Mark explains why approaches that worked during childhood often backfire during adolescence and how parents can communicate expectations, maintain authority and uphold their values without creating resentment or distance. You'll also hear from Heartlight teen Josh, who shares how the pressure to meet others' expectations contributed to anxiety, depression and substance abuse — and what he's learned about accepting his imperfections and taking responsibility for his life. Tune in to discover how small changes in your parenting approach can help you rebuild trust, reduce conflict and draw your teen closer instead of pushing them away.

How do you know if you need outside help with your teen? Learn 10 characteristics of a teen who needs intervention here: bit.ly/does-your-teen-need-intervention

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