What does it really take to raise resilient, emotionally secure children who feel safe, understood, and supported?
In this episode, child development and trauma expert Laura Todd explores how early childhood experiences, birth trauma, NICU stays, and the developing nervous system shape children’s behavior and emotional well-being. Discover how secure attachment, sensory needs, healthy boundaries, and connection-based parenting can help you better understand your child and navigate challenging behaviors with confidence. Laura also shares practical parenting strategies, including play, humor, and repairing relationships after difficult moments, to strengthen your bond and support your child’s resilience. Tune in for an empowering conversation about child development, trauma-informed parenting, emotional regulation, and building resilience in children—and learn why being a good parent isn’t about perfection, but showing up with compassion, connection, and a willingness to grow.
Laura Todd is a licensed therapist in Silicon Valley with over a decade of experience. She specializes in Perinatal Mental Health and Infant/Early Childhood Mental Health. She began her career as a birth-to-five therapist for a local non-profit in Santa Clara County. After having her first baby, she realized she needed to change her career and opened her private practice, Early Bonds Therapy, to support moms in their mental health, the mental health of their baby, and their attachment together. Learn more about Laura's work here and eb sure to follow her on Instagram!
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October 39, 2026
Episode 357
Childhood Trauma: What it is and What it Isn't with Laura Todd
About Your Host:
Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success.
As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life.
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