Covered in Community
We talk a lot about independence, protecting our peace, and learning to do things on our own. But somewhere along the way, we can start treating community like an optional accessory instead of a real human need.
In this episode, we reflect on what it means to be covered by community—not just showing up for other people, but allowing ourselves to be supported, connected, and cared for, too.
From the relationships we build through our children to the friendships that help us feel understood beyond our roles as partners, parents, or professionals, community gives us room to grow. It connects us to resources, new perspectives, opportunities, and reminders that we don’t have to figure everything out alone.
But there’s a balance to consider: How do we build meaningful community without overextending ourselves or losing sight of our own needs?
Community should help us thrive, not leave us depleted. We can contribute without carrying everybody, and we can show up for others while making room for people to show up for us.
This episode invites you to rethink what community looks like in your life—and whether you’re allowing yourself to be covered, too.
Questions to Sit WithTake a moment to reflect on the communities you’re part of—and the ones you may want to cultivate.
Identify one relationship, gathering, or shared experience you want to invest in. Then ask yourself two things:
You don’t have to be everywhere or do everything to belong somewhere.
You deserve to be covered, too.