Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist, marriage and family therapist, and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and it quickly turns into two high achievers comparing notes on the hidden cost of always chasing the next win.
Kwame opens up about skipping the celebration of his own graduations, walking away from a national ... Show More
Yesterday
Vanessa Van Edwards: How to Turn Small Talk Into Real Connection
Vanessa Van Edwards once lost a dream TV deal over small talk. After 20 years of research, she knows how to turn small talk into real connection. On this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Vanessa Van Edwards, behavioral researcher, founder of Science of People and bestselli ... Show More
1h 49m
Oct 1
Stop Grinding: Do Less, Protect Your Energy, and Perform Better With DJ Vanas
If you've been pushing hard but feeling empty, this episode will challenge everything you believe about high performance. DJ Vanas — Air Force veteran, member of the Ottawa Nation, and author of The Warrior Within (Penguin Random House) — brings centuries of tribal wisdom into a ... Show More
1h 7m
Sep 28
Stop Giving Advice Nobody Asked For | Nidhi Tewari
Nidhi explains why the biggest mistake leaders make is rushing from empathy into problem-solving, and why she never gives advice unless someone asks for it. She also asks a question worth sitting with: when we fix, share our own stories, or offer platitudes, whose comfort are we ... Show More
1h 13m
May 2025
4 Principles of Influence from a Hostage Negotiator | Scott Tillema
In this episode of The Art of Charm, retired SWAT hostage negotiator Scott Tillema shares his battle-tested four-part framework for leading difficult conversations, defusing high-stakes conflicts, and influencing others with clarity and confidence. Trained by the FBI and Harvard, ... Show More
1 h
Oct 2024
This One Mistake Will Stop You From Making Millions | Ep. 655
<p>Today, I’m diving into a story that doesn’t get much spotlight. <br/><br/>We love to share the wins, but the truth is, there are just as many lessons in the failures...maybe even more. <br/><br/>This one's tough: I tried to save my friend's business and failed. I lea ... Show More
8m 51s
Aug 2025
S2/E25 The $100M Skill No One Talks About
The single skill that transformed my life and business? Extreme accountability. In this episode, I share the moments I avoided ownership, the lessons that reshaped me, and five ways to stop blaming and start creating real change. You’ll discover why talent is a myth, how to spot ... Show More
14m 32s
Oct 2025
You’re One Connection Away From Changing Your Life with Scott MacGregor
What if one conversation could change the entire direction of your life? In this episode, I bring back one of my favorite conversations with my dear friend, Scott MacGregor, founder of The Outlier Project, founder & CEO of SomethingNew LLC, and bestselling author. Scott and I sha ... Show More
46m 17s
Feb 2025
Scott’s Career Advice: Imposter Syndrome, Startups & Networking
Today, we’re kicking off a special two-part series all about careers—navigating them, advancing them, maybe even surviving them.
In this episode, Scott talks about navigating imposter syndrome, how to know if working for a startup is worthwhile, and shares his best networking a ... Show More
14m 3s