Zuby is joined by self-described "most positive man on the internet," Tyler Todt. Tyler shares his story; from dropping out of college and winning seven figures playing professional poker, to waking up at 34 depressed, overweight, and on an SSRI that made everything worse. Eight and a half years later he's in the best shape of his life, financially free, and coaching thousands of men. The conversation covers why the West is drowning in depression and obesity, why blaming social media is just outsourcing personal responsibility, and the danger of giving away your power, and much more.
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Timestamps:
(00:00) Introduction
(00:38) From poker millionaire to rock bottom
(01:47) The SSRI that made everything worse
(02:05) The night he decided to change his life
(04:43) Why so many people are depressed and anxious
(05:48) Society is not built for you to win
(10:40) Believe what people do, not what they say
(12:25) Focus on what you can actually control
(14:09) Is social media a net positive or negative?
(15:20) What social media is doing to women
(17:06) Why blaming the platforms misses the point
(19:28) Outsourcing personal responsibility
(21:09) Extreme Ownership and stop giving away your power
(23:32) Why people want to be taken care of
(25:09) The permanent alibi explained
(29:21) Coaching married men to stop blaming their wives
(30:35) Why the political pendulum keeps swinging
(35:38) California, homelessness & throwing money at problems
(37:43) Tyler's three policies as dictator
(39:13) Mandatory daily walks — the mental health fix
(42:25) Feminism, birth rates & the timeline problem
(46:46) Why we need to stop caring what people think
(50:07) Acknowledging basic truths without apology
(58:20) Tyler's daily non-negotiables
(59:42) Why obsessing over politics makes you dumber
(01:00:20) What he told his daughter about the election
(01:08:21) Going viral for the wrong reasons
(01:14:03) When people show you who they are
(01:15:47) Making an idol out of bloodline and race
(01:18:33) Tyler's upcoming book & what's next
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