Fantasy is a soft place to land because it demands nothing from us. Reality is harder and that’s exactly why it changes us. We sit with a blunt question that can reshape recovery: if you keep returning to porn, sexual fantasy, scrolling, or busyness, what pain or fear are you trying not to feel? When we stop fighting symptoms and start listening, escape lose ... Show More
Sep 15
Change How You Relate in These 3 Areas
Pain has a way of driving our choices, especially the choices we regret most. When unwanted sexual behaviors show up, it’s tempting to reduce everything to willpower, rules, or stronger accountability. We’ve learned that lasting sexual integrity usually requires something deeper: ... Show More
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Sep 1
Navigating Triggers in the Spirit
A trigger can feel like proof that something is wrong with you.But we’ve learned to see it differently: emotional pain that taps an unhealed wound and yanks us out of our best thinking. When that happens, our bodies often take over with fight, flight, fawn, freeze, or a rush towa ... Show More
43m 47s
Oct 2025
We Took Calls From Strangers Who Need Dating Advice
What happens when real people open up about what they’re walking through and ask for help with love, sex, and dating?WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/CFjj-HWbrdkIn this episode, Gen Z Christians call in to talk about the things most people are too afraid to say out loud. From wonde ... Show More
49m 15s
Aug 2025
Sodom and Sexual Ethics | Paul Twiss and Jonny Ardavanis
In this powerful conversation, Dr. Paul Twiss explores what the Bible teaches about sexuality, marriage, and God's design for intimate relationships. We discuss the biblical response to sexual sin, pornography, homosexuality, and how the church should address these challenging to ... Show More
24m 38s
Jan 2025
How Do I Feel and What Do I Need?
Have you ever acted out sexually or given in to temptation and wondered, ‘Why did I do that?’ In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful connection between emotions, needs, and the choices we make. We’ll unpack why understanding your feelings and expressing your needs is ess ... Show More
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