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Situationships of Yore w/ Carina Hsieh

Julia Hava & Eliza McLamb
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Julia is joined by Carina Hsieh, Deputy Features Editor at Women's Health and the writer widely credited with inventing the term "situationship," to revisit the term's origins and assess the current state of modern dating. They trace the history of dating from courtship and going steady to hookup culture and dating apps, unpack the anxious-avoidant trap, and examine whether dating advice reels, and other online rules actually protect women from heartbreak or just give them more ways to blame themselves. Digressions include the bygone thrill of being pinned, men who self-report as securely attached, and the horror of buying a cheater a PS5 with your own money.

Check out more of Carina's writing at Women's Health and follow her on Instagram @carinahsieh!

WE'RE GOING ON TOUR!!!! Find tickets for the Shake Up Your Life Tour at https://binchtopia.com/tour

This episode was produced by Julia Hava and Kylie Finnigan and edited by Livi Burdette. 

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