Shownotes
The #1 piece of advice for men who want to become multi-orgasmic
What prostate massage can teach men about sex
What happens when men are socialized out of anal pleasure
How slowness retrains patterns while intensity causes shutdown
Why men need as much safety and self-love as women do
The one book Devah says every man should be reading
Bio
Devah Curlechéile is a sex, intimacy, and sensual embodiment guide whose journey began in Ireland.
Raised Catholic, he felt from an early age that life held far more than what he had been shown. After graduating with a degree in Neuroscience from Trinity College Dublin, he left Ireland at 25 and began a decades long global quest to explore the deeper mysteries of human potential, consciousness, energy, and healing.
Over 20 years of travel and study, Devah immersed himself in a range of practices, including Reiki, Sound Healing, Tantra, meditation, shamanic medicine, conscious intimacy, EFT, and tantra massage. His path was shaped by various initiations, including breaking his back twice, navigating depression, sitting with large doses of the various Entheogen's, integrating suppressed parts of himself through transformative experiences in Tokyo's conscious kink underground, and studying tantra and tantra massage in Bali with Ma Ananda Sarita.
Along the way, he also discovered the extraordinary potential of intimate connection with himself and others to open transcendent states of consciousness, cosmic orgasm, and deep embodied awakening.
Now based on Kauai, Devah feels deeply called to help others reconnect with the wisdom of their bodies, awaken their senses, and access greater intimacy, healing, and expansion. Known for his compassionate heart, grounded presence, and nurturing approach, he creates spaces where people can feel safe, seen, and held in reverence as they explore, rediscover, and remember these pleasurable dimensions of embodiment.
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Timestamps
00:00:47 - Guest introduction
00:03:48 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification
00:07:19 - Why Devah recommends starting with a prostate massage before yoni dearmoring
00:11:13 - What Layla experienced when she saw Devah receive a prostate massage
00:15:00 - How to practice the microcosmic orbit to circulate your sexual energy
00:17:17 - Why grounding matters just as much as transcendence in Taoist Tantra
00:20:06 - Men are being socialized out of anal pleasure
00:26:17 - What self-pleasure on psychedelics can teach you about circulating energy
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00:28:35 - What helps men to open up when their bodies are shut down from shame
00:37:52 - What a deeply intentional self-pleasure practice for men looks like
00:43:29 - The shift from dopamine sex to oxytocin sex
00:49:14 - The #1 piece of advice for men learning to become multi-orgasmic
00:57:31 - Why learning things while playing makes you 9x more likely to retain them
01:01:43 - How to worship the entire body before approaching the yoni
01:05:19 - Encouraging consent creates the safety needed for deeper pleasure
01:13:36 - How to hold space for a partner having an emotional experience
01:20:33 - An explanation of the "clock technique" to learn the inside of the yoni
01:25:56 - How Devah's queer sexual experiences made him a better lover to women
01:29:13 - What polarity really means and how to use it energetically
01:31:09 - Conclusion