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Why 'Me Over Us' Is Destroying Your Rela...

Lewis Howes
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Dr. John Delony tells Lewis Howes the real reason relationships fall apart isn't the fight itself, it's choosing "me" over "us" every single time. Using a gutting 9/11 towers analogy from Esther Perel, Delony explains why trying to rebuild your relationship exactly as it was is a losing game, and what to do instead. 
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