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Jul 24
23m 3s

Questions Parents Are Afraid to Ask Out ...

KIRK MARTIN
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What do you do when your child defies you at every turn, refuses to let go of clutter, or prefers their grandmother over you? In this jam-packed episode, Kirk tackles some of the toughest, most sensitive questions parents face. From unpacking the controversial "ODD" diagnosis to navigating step-parent boundaries and dealing with anxious, non-compliant tweens ... Show More
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