Jordana and Dr. Naomi kick things off by catching up about Naomi’s visit with Jordana’s twins and the humbling reality that babies don’t always warm up to eager aunts right away. They discuss the emotional pull of reconnecting with old friends, whether New York is calling Naomi back, and Jordana’s surprisingly complicated reaction to the Knicks’ championship ... Show More
Jun 2
Can I Maintain A Friendship With My Boss?
Jordana spirals over posting her kids on social media, and Dr. Naomi talks her off the ledge while shamelessly lobbying for more niece content. After surviving law school together, one Betch is struggling not to resent the fact that her partner works fewer hours, makes way more m ... Show More
1h 16m
Aug 2024
How Do I Talk To My SO About Grief? ft. Dr. Naomi Bernstein
J&J are diving right in because Dr. Naomi Bernstein, Jordana’s sister and co-host of Oversharing, is in the studio to ease us into this episode. Plus, her husband Jeff tagged along, so we got both sides of their story as they take us back to dating in 2006. Afterwards, Jared snea ... Show More
1h 14m
May 2024
Should I Tone Down My Personality To Attract More Dates? ft. Emma Willmann
This week’s Sunday Special delves into boundaries, appropriateness, and perception, but first, J&J are catching up with Emma Willmann (@emmawillmann). The conversation from Emma’s last time on the pod gets a quick update with where it continued with a sex therapist on Emma’s podc ... Show More
53m 45s
Sep 2024
I’m Turning Into My BF’s Mom And I Hate It
J&J are back in the studio and with the way the U Up? world works, it’s still Jordana’s birthday. They get excited about everything fall has to offer, from dating and the NFL to fall fashion. Plus, a subscriber helps Jordana amend a remark from last week’s chat about Chappell Roa ... Show More
1h 21m
Jun 2023
How To Embrace Being Single
<p>It’s not you, it’s me... Driven by a handful of bad first dates and shallow situationships, Lily made the choice to embark on a season of singleness. In this episode, Lily explains how she shifted from an “anything goes” dating approach to a purpose driven relationship approac ... Show More
38m 4s
Sep 2025
Why I Broke Up With a Good Person
Breaking up is never easy—especially when the person you’re leaving isn’t toxic, cruel, or a bad partner, but simply not the right match. In this episode, Jillian shares her personal story of ending a relationship with a “good person” and the powerful lessons she learned about va ... Show More
30m 48s
Jul 2023
Ask Lily: Feeling Behind In Life, Pacing Myself In A New Relationship, & Struggling With Body Image
<p>The Ask Lily Advice Column is back, baby! Lily kicks off this episode by sharing a few updates, including a little glimpse into the writing project she's hinted at, as well as her plan to take on an intern this fall! Then, she takes some questions from a few 80/20 listeners. T ... Show More
33m 26s