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#326 How People Pleasing Makes Breakups ...

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In this episode of Heal Your Heartbreak, Kendra interviews psychologist and author Dr. Paula Freedman Diamond about overcoming perfectionism, people pleasing, and toxic striving in relationships and breakups, offering practical advice for healing and developing authenticity. 
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