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Why Smart Women Keep Getting Ghosted Aft...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
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We’ve all seen the script play out: The texting is solid. The effort is visible. You feel a genuine connection sparking. And then, silence. Ghosting become the "new normal" of the digital dating era. But as we tell our clients, while ghosting is common, it is never random. Here is the psychological reality behind why men vanish. Stop making his silence mean ... Show More
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