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May 28
48m 37s

I Think I've Been Wrong About a Few Thin...

Zoë Lilou
About this episode

a little life update from california.

in this episode, i share a realization i've been having about how my first relationship - and the abuse that existed within it - may have shaped my relationship to intimacy in ways i didn't fully understand until now.

we also talk about procrastination, routine, perspective shifts, and a few things that have been making more sense lately.

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