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When a parent emailed asking how to discipline their kids after blowing up the family, we knew this conversation needed its own episode. Their question went deeper than discipline though. It was about authority. How do you lead your kids when you feel completely disqualified? And how do you sta ... Show More
Jun 1
What Kids Actually Do to Your Marriage | Ft. Charles and Abby Metcalf
Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comFor the first time on Lights On, Carl and Laura invited guests to the table: Charles and Abby Metcalf, dear friends, pastors, and parents of four little ones in the thick of the season most couples privately worry they w ... Show More
1 h
May 25
How do you rebuild intimacy after betrayal?
Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.com This is the number one question Carl and Laura get asked, so they finally gave it a whole episode. A listener wrote in asking how you rebuild intimacy when sex, touch, and closeness have all become wired to pain, pressu ... Show More
55m 50s
May 11
How Do You Know When FORGIVENESS Is REAL?
Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comWhen a husband emailed asking why his wife still brings up his affair every week, three years after it happened, even though she says she has forgiven him, we knew this conversation was going to land for a lot of people. ... Show More
48m 7s
Jun 2025
When Your Brain Won’t Shut Up: A guide to internal peace and lasting focus
Let's unpack the heart of attention, addiction, autopilot and self-sabotage. This episode is a deep dive into the junk food of thought: addictive mental loops that hijack your attention, and keep you stuck repeating the same boring patterns — again and again and again. We talk ab ... Show More
25m 32s
Jul 2025
The Psychology of Obsession, Rumination & Letting Go - Dr Rick Hanson - #968
Dr. Rick Hanson is a psychologist, speaker, and an author. How often do you find yourself stuck replaying a situation you wish you could just forget? No matter how much you want to move on, your mind keeps circling back. So what are the practical strategies to break free from rum ... Show More
1h 39m
Jul 2025
Dr K (Bad Habit Addiction Doctor): The Truth About Dopamine, Addiction, Pornography & Masturbation
World-Renowned Addiction Expert Dr. K reveals the SHOCKING truth about masturbation, pornography, dopamine burnout, incels, and why 60% of men under 30 are single. Dr K from Healthy Gamer! Dr. Alok Kanojia (aka Dr. K) is a world-leading addiction expert, Harvard-trained psychiatr ... Show More
1h 58m
Mar 2025
Mental, moral and physical laziness - how to beat our modern addictions
What if the path to a meaningful life isn't paved with comfort, but with deliberate discomfort? In this episode, we explore the insidious nature of "flabbiness" - not just of body, but of mind and spirit. We'll uncover how our modern world lulls us into a state of complacent exis ... Show More
20m 52s
Aug 2024
The Power of Self-Love: Kevin Hines on Turning Brain Pain into Purpose
TW: This episode discusses suicide and depression In this uplifting episode, we sit down with Kevin Hines, an award-winning speaker and mental health advocate, to explore resilience, hope, and the journey to self-love. At the age of 19, Kevin survived a suicide attempt that forev ... Show More
1h 19m
Mar 2025
How to Stop Screwing Yourself Over
<p>Today, you’re getting a wake-up call that will forever change the way you see your phone, your attention, and your time. </p><p>Mel is pulling back the curtain on the hidden game that Big Tech is playing with your brain—one designed to hijack your focus, drain your energy, and ... Show More
1h 13m
Aug 2025
Ep 304 You're Smart. You're Capable. And You're Still Stuck
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Have you ever wondered why, despite knowing everything about weight loss, you still can't stop obsessing over food and your body? Why do you feel stuck in a loop of control, restriction, and guilt—even when you "do everything right"? And you fee ... Show More
38m 10s
Jan 2025
Break Free from Destructive Patterns, the Real Reason You Feel Stuck & How to Protect Yourself from Toxic People, with Mel Robbins!
Mel Robbins' Mind-Blowing Secrets on Mindset to Feel Better Emotionally & Spiritually! Learn How to Regulate Your Emotions in a Foolproof Way&Stop Letting Toxic People Control You: Is It Time to CUT THEM OFF? Mel Robbins, the mindset, motivation, & behavior change expert, reveals ... Show More
1h 37m