Drawing from a recent coaching conversation inside the Not Too Sensitive Club, Alissa walks through the pattern so many highly sensitive women fall into: outsourcing their sense of self to how others respond to them. When that source gets disrupted (e.g., a boundary gets pushback, a workplace stops reflecting your value) it can feel like an identity crisis.
Alissa explores what happens when the external validation you've relied on disappears, and why that unraveling is actually the beginning of something more solid.
Because the real work isn't getting people to see you differently. It's learning to source your steadiness from within so that outside opinions stop running your life.
What you'll hear in this episode:
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