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Nathalie Nimah
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#94: "How the f&ck are we supposed to trust men?!"
In this Dear Nath Q&A episode, we open up an honest and nuanced conversation about what it means to be a woman who desires love, intimacy, and partnership with men… while also feeling fear, distrust, and grief.We explore:Why your rage, disgust, and hopelessness are valid response ... Show More
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Most relationships don’t fail because of conflict.They fail because of how conflict is handled.In this episode, we’re talking about how to create a healthy conflict culture, one where you can disagree, get triggered, and still stay on the same team.We’ll unpack:Key ingredients fo ... Show More
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What does it actually mean to have standards in dating and relationships and why is it so hard to stick to them?In this episode, we move beyond surface-level advice and explore what standards really are: not a checklist of traits, but the conditions that allow you to feel safe, r ... Show More
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