Trust isn’t about feeling calm. It’s about deciding who carries the weight. In this episode, Dr. Sharla introduces a biblically grounded and psychologically informed framework for identifying the hidden patterns that keep you saying you trust God while quietly maintaining control.
You’ll learn why many sincere believers stay stuck in cycles of overthinking, delay, spiritual exhaustion, or disappointment and how fear can disguise itself as maturity. Dr. Sharla unpacks four “trust distortions” that mimic obedience but avoid relational vulnerability with God: confirmation chasing, rumination, contract thinking, and emotional certainty. Using Scripture and clinical insight, she explains how these patterns temporarily reduce anxiety but ultimately weaken discernment and intimacy.
If you’ve been asking for more signs, replaying decisions endlessly, feeling resentful when outcomes disappoint, or waiting to “feel peace” before you move, this episode will help you recalibrate. You’ll walk away with practical direction for retraining your thinking, tolerating risk, and building trust that is rooted in God’s character rather than your internal comfort.
If this conversation resonates, leave a review or comment and let Dr. Sharla know. If there’s enough demand, she’ll develop a deeper assessment tool and companion ebook to help you identify your dominant trust distortion and begin dismantling it with structured guidance and practical exercises.
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