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How to Train Your Social Skills (Based o...

THE ART OF CHARM
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AJ and Johnny break down why high performers train everything except the moments that decide outcomes: conversations. Most people rely on experience and hope, but without feedback, social skills don’t improve — they calcify. This episode explains why structured reps and real feedback are the missing piece, how bad habits get reinforced without a loop, and w ... Show More
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Episode Description: AJ and Johnny sit down with psychologist Guy Winch, author of Mind Over Grind, to unpack how grind culture quietly erodes our mental health, relationships, and sense of self — often without us realizing it. Guy explains why stress no longer stays at work, how ... Show More
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The Psychology of Reaching Out — and the Easiest Win You’re Not Taking | Social Intelligence Briefing
AJ and Johnny break down why reconnecting with old friends feels harder than it should — and why the hesitation isn’t rejection, it’s symmetry. Both people usually care. Both people assume the other doesn’t. And nothing happens. Drawing on behavioral research and social psycholog ... Show More
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The Myth of Self-Made Success | Daniel Coyle
AJ and Johnny sit down with Daniel Coyle, bestselling author and culture researcher, to explore what it actually means to flourish — and why flourishing is never a solo pursuit. Drawing from his research into thriving communities around the world, Daniel explains why growth, mean ... Show More
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