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You Don’t Have to Make Them the Enemy

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Rosie unpacks a moment where setting a boundary felt necessary but still complicated. She talks about polarization, cancel culture, and how we can step back from conflict without turning people into villains. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
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