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Dear Banya: Who Ya Gonna Call?

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Becca and Tanya are back to help some Scrubbers with another round of Dear Banya!

What do you do when your ex starts dating someone new… and it’s your next door neighbor?? 
When can you “rescind” a wedding invite?? 

And what’s the best way to handle a partner who doesn’t feel the same urgency to take the next step??

Plus… if you could take on any movie role, what would it be??

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