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Dear Banya: The People We Scrub on Vacat...

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It’s time for another round of Dear Banya! 

Becca and Tanya try to help a scrubber with the dilemma of a small courthouse wedding or a big blowout dream ceremony, and should you be OBSESSED with your partner?? 

Plus, we get you caught up on the “toxic mom drama”, Tanya’s Golden Globes manifestation, and a behind the scenes report from Becca on our next Bachelorette, Taylor Frankie Paul!

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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