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Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 3 - Signs a...

Kirk Honda
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 26, 2025

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Intro
05:37 The signs of experiencing limerence
18:22 The functional impact 
28:53 How does limerence disrupt life?
46:43 How is it different from a crush?
1:06:43 Is it possible to have a healthy relationship?

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