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The Real Reason Couples Keep Fighting: T...

Kenny Weiss
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What if every conversation with your partner keeps turning into arguments, misunderstandings, shutdowns, or full-blown fights — no matter how small the topic is?

🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Hi, I'm Kenny WeissA Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery SpecialistI help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see.Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.If you’ve tried everything & still feel stuck, it’s not your fault— the real root issue simply hasn’t been uncovered.Uncovering, resolving & repairing the root issues are my specialties.I will do my best to provide you with the knowledge, skills, and tools to master communication, heal childhood trauma, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, narcissistic abuse, stress, shame, fear, anger, sadness, self-deception, self-sabotage, depression, divorce, relationship problems, parenting, parental alienation, estrangement, addiction, mental health, self-love, and the worst day cycle so you can reclaim your authentic self. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoachWhat if every conversation with your partner keeps turning into arguments, misunderstandings, shutdowns, or full-blown fights — no matter how small the topic is?What if the real problem isn’t what you’re fighting about… but a hidden pattern neither of you even knows you’re stuck in?Watch this video to finally break that cycle.In this eye-opening lesson, Kenny Weiss reveals the two invisible dynamics destroying relationships from the inside out:Reality Arguments — when both partners believe they’re right and can’t see why the other person doesn’t understandTaking Each Other’s Inventory — the subtle behavior that instantly triggers defensiveness, control, and emotional shutdownMost couples have no idea these patterns are the real reason communication collapses and fights escalate.But once you learn Kenny’s Tennis Court Method, everything changes.This powerful analogy shows you exactly how to:Stop reacting emotionallyStay on your side of the “court”Understand your partner’s reality without trying to change itBreak codependent habitsCommunicate without triggering argumentsReconnect — even when you disagreeCouples who learn this often feel the “temperature drop” in their relationship almost immediately.

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