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Nov 19
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Why Fun Conversations Build Deeper Fathe...

Larry Hagner
About this episode

In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, I sit down with my 9-year-old son Colton for a spontaneous and deeply connective conversation. Using our brand-new Questions for the Car resource, we explore everything from nightmares and Dog Man books to space rides and secret lemonade recipes. It's a candid glimpse into father-son bonding, full of laughter, surprises, and those unscripted moments that truly matter.

 

Whether you're a dad looking for creative ways to connect with your kids or just need a smile today, this episode is a reminder of the magic that happens when we slow down, ask meaningful questions, and just listen. Colton brings the energy and honesty only a 9-year-old can, and the stories he shares will absolutely make your day.

 


 

Episode Highlights

[0:00] - Introduction

[1:10] - Introducing Colton and the new "Questions for the Car" resource

[3:35] - The big move from Facebook to our private Dad Edge Alliance platform

[5:00] - Colton shares his outfit of the day and his excitement for Black Friday merch

[6:00] - Colton's wild dream involving spooky gray eyes and… Mr. Doo Doo?

[8:45] - Talking books: Colton breaks down his latest Dog Man read (spoiler alert!)

[11:00] - Reflecting on romance, weddings, and seeing parents show love

[13:10] - Favorite family memory: Disney World and the magic of Space Mountain

[15:45] - If he had a magic wand… Colton's Paris dreams and golden chocolate

[17:03] - What makes a good friend, and Colton's trampoline generosity

[18:00] - Why asking fun questions builds better conversations and memories

[20:00] - The best lemonade in the world (and the secret ingredient Colton won't tell!)

 


 

5 Key Takeaways

 

  1. Ask Better Questions – Engaging your kids with meaningful questions opens the door to unforgettable conversations.
  2. Connection Over Perfection – Conversations with younger kids might "squirrel," but the real gift is in the connection.
  3. Create Fun Family Rituals – Resources like Questions for the Car can turn everyday drives into bonding moments.
  4. Celebrate the Small Things – From dreams to books to lemonade, everything is an opportunity to connect.
  5. Lead by Example – Showing love, presence, and intention as a father shapes your child's inner world.

 

 


 

Links & Resources

 

 

 


 

Closing Thoughts

 

Even the shortest chats with our kids can leave lasting impressions. Whether you're talking about books, dreams, or lemonade recipes, remember—it's not about the topic, it's about the connection. If this episode inspired you, made you laugh, or gave you new ideas to connect with your kids, please rate and review the show, and don't forget to share it with another dad who might need it.

 

Stay legendary.

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