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Nov 12
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Dismantling the Lies That Keep You Burie...

THE GIRL NAMED BLAKE
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In this episode, I sit down for the third time with one of my all-time favorite authors, Gary Thomas, whose books have radically shaped my faith and perspective on life, relationships, and spiritual growth. From When to Walk Away to Sacred Marriage and Sacred Pathways, Gary's writing has helped countless believers understand what it means to live a life rooted in truth and grace. His newest book, The Life You Were Reborn to Live, takes that even deeper—calling out the spiritual lies that keep us buried beneath the surface of God's best.

These lies are subtle, familiar, and often sound like wisdom—but they quietly rob us of peace, purpose, and abundance. In this conversation, Gary and I unpack three of the most powerful lies from his book that hit me straight in the heart (and probably will for you, too). We talk about:

  • Dismantling Restlessness — learning to live in peace, not panic.

  • Dismantling the Comfort Lie — seeing affliction as God's loving pruning, not punishment.

  • Dismantling Complacent Ignorance — rekindling a hunger for wisdom that transforms how we think and live.

Gary helps us see how many of these lies have even slipped into church culture—convincing us to chase comfort, control, or comparison instead of the freedom and renewal Christ offers. This episode will help you identify where the enemy has kept you "underground" and remind you that you were reborn to live in the light.

It's the perfect conversation to help us end the year well—tearing down what's false and walking boldly into the truth.


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