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Nov 4
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165 | Don't Fake Orgasms, Foreplay Begin...

LINDSEY MAESTAS
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In this episode of The Living Easy Podcast, Lindsey Maestas opens a biblical and deeply practical conversation about intimacy in marriage—because God makes all things new, even in the bedroom.

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Sex may not really matter to you, but it does matter to your marriage.

See the FULL curriculum for: The Sex and Intimacy Project: A 4-Week Video Study a His + Hers Workbook for a Stronger Sex Life 

Lindsey unpacks how physical connection is both a spiritual and emotional act of service, not just a physical one. She discusses the dangers of pornography and limerence (infatuation during affairs), how these habits alter neural pathways, and how to create a sex life in your marriage that you don't need to escape from. 

You'll hear about:

  • Why Scripture calls us not to deprive one another of sex (1 Corinthians 7:5)

  • Why the clitoris reminds us that God created sex for pleasure
  • How faking orgasms creates emotional distance and false intimacy

  • What it means to "show and tell" in your marriage — teaching your spouse what makes you feel good during sex

  • How foreplay actually begins outside the bedroom, through kindness, affection, and communication

  • The importance of serving one another in physical foreplay
  • The "microwave vs. crockpot" concept and understanding your spouse's arousal rhythms

  • Seeing your partner's body as a book to study — learning, honoring, and cherishing it as a form of worship to God

This is a conversation about reclaiming intimacy, breaking shame, and learning to experience sex as a holy gift that strengthens your connection rather than erodes it. When we become intentional about how we love each other physically, we build the kind of trust, pleasure, and connection that keeps our marriages from burning down.

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