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Oct 2025
1h 39m

232. “My husband gives me an allowance. ...

RAMIT SETHI
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Edward (38) and Ellen (30) live in Hawaii with their young daughter and a new baby on the way. With a net worth of over $2 million, their finances look strong on paper, but behind the scenes, their marriage is strained by control, fear, and trust issues around money. Edward manages every dollar, while Ellen has to ask for “permission” to spend, even on bas ... Show More
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