logo
episode-header-image
Oct 24
26m 21s

603. What Men Really Want: Beyond Women,...

David Trig
About this episode

1. INTRO – The Illusion of Satisfaction (2–3 min)

  • Hook: “We chase women, money, and recognition—but still feel empty. Why?”

  • Story: a moment when you had success but felt hollow inside.

  • Truth: We weren’t created just to be comfortable—we were created to be called.

  • Verse:

    “What does it profit a man to gain the whole world, yet lose his soul?” — Mark 8:36

  • Transition: “Let’s talk about what really drives a man—and what God says about it.”

  • Men often confuse being desired with being known.

  • When love becomes a mirror for ego, it turns into idolatry.

  • Healthy vision: love as partnership in mission, not escape from emptiness.

  • Verse:

    “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” — Proverbs 18:22
    “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church…” — Ephesians 5:25

  • Many men tie identity to income: ‘If I lose my job, who am I?’

  • The trap: chasing provision without peace.

  • Verse:

    “For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.” — 1 Timothy 6:10
    “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” — Matthew 6:33

  • The stage can become an altar where we worship ourselves.

  • Men crave honor—but real honor is found in humility.

  • Verse:

    “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” — Philippians 2:3
    “He must become greater; I must become less.” — John 3:30

  • The turning point: “What was I made to build, heal, or lead?”

  • True manhood = responsibility + surrender.

  • Verse:

    “For we are God’s masterpiece, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” — Ephesians 2:10
    “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I set you apart.” — Jeremiah 1:5

  • Reflection: pain often reveals purpose—God wastes nothing.

A. Look Inward — Identity

  • What makes your heart beat faster?

  • Verse: “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” — Proverbs 23:7

B. Look Backward — Redemption

  • Your scars are clues.

  • Verse: “He comforts us in all our troubles so we can comfort others.” — 2 Corinthians 1:4

C. Look Upward — Calling

  • Ask God, not culture, for your mission.

  • Verse: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart… and He will direct your paths.” — Proverbs 3:5–6

D. Look Around — Action

  • Serve today, purpose grows through movement.

  • Verse: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.” — Colossians 3:23

  • Recap: Pleasure fades. Purpose endures.

  • Verse:

    “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13

  • Final thought: “You don’t need more applause—you need more assignment.”

  • Call to action: “Ask God this week: What do You want to do through my life?

  • Underscore with calm instrumental.

  • Tagline voice: “Men aren’t fulfilled by what they collect, but by what they’re called to.”

🔥 2. THE THREE FALSE GODS (7–9 min)A. WOMEN — The Search for ValidationB. MONEY — The Illusion of ControlC. FAME — The Hunger for Significance💡 3. THE SHIFT: From Success to Significance (6–8 min)🧭 4. HOW TO DISCOVER PURPOSE (5–7 min)💬 5. CLOSING REFLECTION (3–4 min)🎶 OUTRO (optional)

Up next
Nov 22
606. Is This the End of My Ministry? | davidTrig
<p>At 56 years old, after a lifetime of ministry as a worship pastor, lead pastor, and shepherd, I’ve found myself asking one of the hardest questions of my life:</p><p><strong>“Is this the end of my ministry passion?”</strong></p><p>In this deeply personal episode, I explore wha ... Show More
12 m
Nov 1
605. SPANISH - El Amor Entre Hermanos es Unico | davidTrig
🎙️ El Amor Entre Hermanos es ÚnicoEl amor entre hermanos es una historia sagrada: hecha de risas, peleas, recuerdos y un lazo que ni el tiempo puede romper. En este episodio, David Trig comparte reflexiones honestas sobre lo que significa crecer, sanar y reencontrarse con el cor ... Show More
15m 21s
Oct 29
604. What Women Really Want: Beyond Bucks, Babies and Bods | davidTrig
Our world tells men that worth is built on the “3 sixes”: six pack, six figures, six feet tall. But what if God designed something more meaningful? In this conversation, we unpack the desires of the heart — trust, devotion, partnership, emotional presence, purpose — and how men c ... Show More
23m 9s
Recommended Episodes
Oct 19
Lesson 51: Who are you waiting for?
In this lesson, you'll learn the following phrases: Who are you waiting for? / Are you waiting for someone? / I'm waiting for a friend. / I'm sorry I'm late. How long have you been waiting? / I've been waiting here for fifteen minutes. / Are you leaving now? / I'll wait five more ... Show More
15m 56s
Apr 2025
You Keep Waiting for a Sign—This Is It. Move.
<p>You keep asking for a sign. This is it. You don’t need more clarity—you need movement. This video is a wake-up call for every dream you keep delaying, every decision you keep postponing, and every version of you that’s waiting to come alive. No more waiting for the perfect mom ... Show More
5m 26s
Jun 2022
Sincerely, Sumayah // [Episode 36] One Last Thing
You aren't unworthy, corrupt or so lost that you should just give up on yourself. You're not too far gone. If you have nothing else, hold on to the one last thing. It may be the thing that saves you. 
7 m
Apr 2025
TIME TO GET TO WORK - Best Motivational Speech Compilation
It's time to get to work. No more excuses. No more waiting. It's time to be all you were meant to be. What are you waiting for? Speakers: Andy FrisellaDenzel WashingtonElon MuskEric ThomasJordan PetersonGary VaynerchukTom BilyeuTheo Von Music: Oneheart - this feeling Hosted on Ac ... Show More
31m 19s
Oct 2024
99% of Everything Came True When I Used THIS Neville Goddard Technique
<div class="preview-itemtitle"> </div> <div class="preview-release-date">Are you ready to make your dreams a reality? <a href= "https://affirmationtomanifestation.com/mastery">https://affirmationtomanifestation.com/mastery</a> What if you are dealing with resistance that stops yo ... Show More
7m 34s
Sep 2024
The Busy Soul Learning to Wait for God
How can active, impatient doers learn to wait on God? Pastor John describes spiritual waiting — and shows how we can answer such a question for ourselves. 
12m 37s
Apr 2025
Your All-or-Nothing Mindset Is Keeping You Stuck—Break Free Now
<p>You’ve been waiting for the right time. Planning everything to perfection. But deep down, you know—it’s fear. Fear of failing. Fear of being seen trying. In this video, we unpack the real reason you keep getting stuck in life: the all-or-nothing mindset. I’ll walk you through ... Show More
6m 10s